The Effective Way to Avoid Negative Impacts of Internet is Parents’ Guidance By Cyntia Puspita

One of the famous issues in Indonesia is the impacts of internet usage. Currently, internet bring negative impacts for children and teenagers, and many people believe that it is very important to find a best way to avoid negative impacts of internet to them. Although some people feel that there is no way can be a best way to avoid negative impacts of internet, I believe that parents’ guidance is ones of best solution that strongly able to avoid negative impacts of internet.

Opponents claim that it is not necessary to control children and teenagers when they want to use the internet for their sake such as find the answer for their homework and find more information about the lesson in the school. However, this argument ignores about the fact that there are many children and teenagers who abuse the internet usage for examples; pornography, violence, cyber-bullying, and etc. Based on the findings, more than half of children (52%) say that they have come across pornographic content through advertisements or non-suspicious links. Guidance from parents is important given to them in order avoid this abuse. (source:

Opponents also maintain that the internet can make children and teenagers more relax after their study in the school such as playing game online. This argument once again did not think about the consequence. The consequence is more they play, more they addicted to internet. Internet addiction bring negative impacts to them such as they will think about using the internet all day. It makes them be lazy to study. That’s why parents’ guidance is needed for this situation because they can give limitation of internet usage.

The final argument by opponents that children and teenagers can use the internet with free. It means, in this case they can open many website in the internet. Over and over again, this argument is inconclusive. How can they are free to open many website without thinking about the good or bad value in the website. Parents’ guidance can help them to choose which one that contains good value and useful for them.

It should be evident that the best solution to keep children safe from the dangers of the internet is parents’ guidance. Parents’ guidance can guide them avoid the abuse of the internet. Next, limitation of internet usage only given by childrens’ parents. Last, children will easily obbey the command from their parents to not open random websites. Finally, a best solution founded. Therefore, in my opinion, parents’ guidance is effective way to avoid negative impacts of the internet for children and teenagers.



Descriptive Essay

The Peninsula Island is My Favorite Place


There are many places that come to mind when I think of places I like to go in Bali. Because there are many good places, it is hard to choose which one is my favorite place. However, I chose go to Peninsula Island because it is a beautiful place to visit, exercise, and relaxed.

The Peninsula Island has many beautiful things to see. Firstly, there are a lot of beach. In this island, there are difference view of beach when you go to west, east, north, and south of the island . Secondly, the visitors especially foreigners take a walk around the park in this island. They see beautiful scenes of this island. Thirdly, the background of the peninsula island add to the peaceful and coolness feeling.

The Peninsula Island offers many ways to exercise. First, this place offers visitors to ride the bicycle around the island. It can make visitors take a relax by doing this sport. Second, this place offers some watersport too for visitors such as body surfing, diving, jet skiing, and etc. visitors usually pay to do that watersport. Third, the open fields of the park in this island is good for activity like have lunch together with family. For example, the family bring their cooking to this place in order can eat lunch together while see the beautiful scene.

The Peninsula Island is a place to relaxed and have fun. First, being around nature is healthy for the mind. It means the beautiful scenes of this island is very good for the mind. Second, exercising is good for relieving stress. Activities in this place make visitors fade their stress and make them relax without think everything on their mind. Last, in this place family can go to the beach or the park to laugh and play together. It makes good memories when family feel happy visited this place

When it comes to finding a best place to have holiday in Bali, to be around nature, and to do healthy things, I can’t think of a wonderful place to go to than the Peninsula Island. In my opinion, the best things in life are free, enjoy, have fun and the places of this island can help you experience these things. That’s why I choose it’s my favorite place.

Recount Essay

My First Trip with My Cousins


About two weeks ago, my cousins and I had holiday in Bali. We went on a trip at Peninsula Island Nusa Dua, Bali. We rode motorcycle early in the morning. The journey there took more than 45 minutes from our hotel. I thought It was not far from our hotel where we stayed. We through Bali Mandara Tollroad in order arrived there. It was my third time to visited Bali. But, it was their first trip in Bali. Actually, I went holiday there because I accompanied them. We could say that I was be a guide for them. I managed everything for them as long as we were in Bali.

We were excited with this trip. We brought drinks in this place. When arriving there we we’re stunned by the scenic view of beautiful beach. The beautiful scenery impressed us and the sound of the beach made us felt like we were in paradise. Peninsula Island was famous for its beautiful beach and recreation park among local visitors neither tourists.

We did many things there. We swam at the beach, took a walk at the park, took pictures together, and many more. As we took selfie around the beach, suddenly the wave came to us and made our clothes were half wet. Actually we didn’t bring another clothes, we were confused what could we do next. When we took a walk around the park, we were surprised there was a clothes store. Then we bought new clothes for us. It was funny to see my cousins’ clothes wet because of the wave.

After a few minutes, we had lunch in the restaurant near the beach. It was so wonderful when we enjoyed our meal while saw the beautiful scenery around the restaurant. We rested for a while after lunch. We drunk fresh coconuts there enjoyed the scenery. It was really calm and peace. Before we went home, we took a walk the park in other side. We visited beach club where there are many tourist wore bikinis. Then, we asked to took pictures with them. We liked took pictures with foreigners. We went home in the evening. We felt really sad leaving the Peninsula Island, Nusa Dua Bali. While in the motorcycle, we talked each other and agreed to come again there next year. My cousins said that the Peninsula Island was the favorite place for them Although it was tiring, it was wonderful and fun trip for us.

An Argumentative Essay

                                      YOUNG MARRIAGE FOR COLLEGE STUDENTS


          The young marriage issue has always been one of the most important issues of the college students life neither society. Years ago there were many people married when they were in young age like after graduated from junior high school or senior high school. They said that it was common condition. But, nowadays the situation has quite changed. Some people has married after they graduated from their college or after they got a job. In other side, most people who are under 21 years old nowadays married while their status still as active college students. Ordinarily, a college student is not ready confront some problem may appear from his/her young marriage. Nevertheless if it especially goes about society start talking about the young marriage for such college students. A college student is not mentally capable of comprehending the problem he or she commits for both college life and marriage life. The opinion that young marriage may make some problem for the college student and therefore may give bad conflicts for his/her marriage life. In this case the young marriage is the cause of unsuccessful college life and the main complication of marriage life.

          Most college students think that young marriage doesn’t make some problem for the college life because his/her couple will support their study and have a happy life together. There are some reason why I refute the statement said that young marriage doesn’t make some problem for college students. About marriage while college students, according Blood (1969) have different problems from the common marriage problems. There are some things may complicate in college life. First, the problem of sharing character. For example, a woman as a wife. A college student was a wife will confront her works as a wife. But, they must responsible too for their character as a student, such as present in her college time, do her assignments, follow her exam, and etc. Second, the problem of finance. Next, the problem of self development and directness of her education. That’s all argued that young marriage really may make some problem for college students.

          Some people said that when we have marriage while college student can make your study be successful because by having motivator from a beloved person, it makes you have motivation to get high accomplishment. I disagree about the statement said that young marriage may be a good factor to get successful college life. According Jean McManus, as a psychologist, says that college marriage often results in restriction of college experiences, participation in college functions and of relationships of college friends. Whether you have great grades or average grades, with a spouse waiting for you at home it is going to become very difficult to get to class, let alone social engagements. The distractions that marriage brings are endless and normal. also finds that marriage affects academics. There is often a drop in grades due to added responsibilities. Even most of married students give up on their college life. The man choose to find a job and the woman choose be a house wife. That’s why young marriage while college student may make your college life be unsuccessful, and you may lose your college life.

          There is a young couple who has married for 1 year. They said that they have a happy marriage because they can understand each other, and they said that they are sure there is no problem of their marriage for the future time later. Maybe it’s okay because it’s just for 1 year. We don’t know about the future, right? I think you will be surprise when you will confront so many problem of your marriage for the future. There are few thing you must know that young marriage while college student may give some conflict and be the main complication of marriage life. Most, those who perform early marriage, caused by social problems and economic problems in the family. Poverty is one of the major factors under-pinning early marriage. Where poverty is acute, a young girl may be regarded as an economic burden and her marriage to a much older. the negative side of early marriage: From the medical point of view, early marriage has a negative impact for both the mother and the child is born. According to the sociologist, viewed from the social side, early marriage can reduce the harmonization of the family. This is caused by emotions that are still unstable, turbulent blood of young and immature way of thinking. Because of this condition the marriage life may end no longer time, And finally this condition be a factor of divorce. Looking at various aspects of early marriage does have many negative impacts.

          Is young marriage while college student be an exact choice after all? This was the main question for college students who complicated about do marriage while college or after college. It is obvious that this case certain many issues, as the case was about the young marriage of college students. When you choose to do marriage while college student, you may confront few things. First, your marriage will give some problem to your college life because you must manage your character as a wife neither a college student. Second, young marriage while college student can be the main cause of unsuccessful college life. You will give up on your college and prefer to be a housewife. Last, it may be the main complication of your marriage life. It’s be a factor of separation with your couple and no longer marriage life. To conclude, I just wanna notice that you must want a marriage for the first and the last time. So, you must think carefully when you want to do marriage while your college time, think about the impact and then take a wise decision which never make you regret for your future. “Just enjoy your college life and make your dream come true by high education achievement

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Truth in Blogging

writing mask smSometimes, I feel like a fraud, like one of the shiny, happy people who populate the Internet with grievously sparkly accounts of their perfect lives. (Those people make me crazy.) I hope I do not actually do that, but sometimes I feel like certain omissions in what I share make me less authentic, even slightly dishonest.

This is mostly ridiculous, of course.

The world of digital publishing – blogging and social media in particular – puts writers in a strange new land. I sometimes feel like we’ve been pulled out of our cozy writing caves and plunked down on a stage in front of an audience we cannot see beyond the bright footlights. Dazed and blinded, we take out our notebooks and laptops and start, tentatively, to scribble and tap; but the experience is different in front of a live audience. Before, there was only the work…

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